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Having a tough time today.....
  • HOWIE8
    Posts: 7,525
    ......mobile switched off while I'm on Annual leave over xmas, but somat made me check it last night. Had a message from the partner of a great character who ive been supporting for the last 3yrs, through Mental Health issues, and even up to the last session of a Conservation group i run(last Tuesday), he came along despite being very ill through that tw**t of a desease Cancer, had passed away in hospital on xmas eve. I'm devastated he was such a character and a great person to be around and without him realising; was a great support to all the other people in our group who have mental health issues. RIP Hefyn Thomas its been a privalage to have known you.
  • BlueMineck
    Posts: 265
    Seems like you do a tough job but very conscientiously.  There will be other people like him who need people like you.  All the best mate.
  • blue-eyed girl
    Posts: 1,306
    I'm sorry Howie. It's never easy losing someone you have grown to be friends with and enjoy having in your life. Keep your memories of him in your heart and when you think back on some of the things you spoke about, smile and raise a glass in
    his honor.
    Hugs Howie, and as always, I'm here for you if you need to talk.
  • sambo applecart
    Posts: 24,216
    Really sorry to hear that Howie mate, i'm sure though, that you will have had a positive impact on his life over the last 3 years. Thinking of ya fella, keep your chin up my friend :)
  • Snowcone
    Posts: 6,770
    Sorry to hear that Howie mate. Lost a couple of friends/family to cancer this year myself. Its an absolute f'ker of a disease. 
  • HOWIE8
    Posts: 7,525
    Thanks for all your sentiments, its really appreciated. Like Snowy said on his thread there are so many of you on here that are such good people. Thanks again....
  • scottdware
    Posts: 33
    Sorry to hear that, Howie :( I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
  • Deus Ex Machina
    Posts: 3,204
    He was needed elsewhere.

    Sorry Howie.
  • blue32years
    Posts: 16,295
    Sorry to hear that Howie.

    May he rest in peace
  • milky71
    Posts: 8,769
    condolences Howie **** time to lose someone close nto that theres ever a good time to lose someone
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,512
    Hey howie, sorry to hear this mate. I know it's no consolation right now but I am sure his life was richer for knowing you.  ;-)
  • Winston Wolfe
    Posts: 4,665
    HOWIE8 said:

    ......mobile switched off while I'm on Annual leave over xmas, but somat made me check it last night. Had a message from the partner of a great character who ive been supporting for the last 3yrs, through Mental Health issues, and even up to the last session of a Conservation group i run(last Tuesday), he came along despite being very ill through that tw**t of a desease Cancer, had passed away in hospital on xmas eve. I'm devastated he was such a character and a great person to be around and without him realising; was a great support to all the other people in our group who have mental health issues. RIP Hefyn Thomas its been a privalage to have known you.


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    Lived through it and experienced it first hand with an uncle who was more like a father to me pal.....echoing your thoughts on your pal he was one of lifes good guys....a term thats bandied about to often, but true.

    It's just a case of knowing they're better off where they are mate.
  • HOWIE8
    Posts: 7,525
    Thanks to you all again for your thoughts. I am blessed to have a good friend who knows me so well and how to keep up my spirits, so i'm feeling a lot better for her guidance and support, likewise from reading your posts...
  • IdiAminDaDa
    Posts: 7,478
    Sorry for your loss mate...

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