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Murray
  • AussieSheila
    Posts: 1,748
    Murray

    Whilst I don't condone your comments in Winston's thread about his baby (I too have been through something similar & it's absolutely terrifying, wouldn't wish it upon anyone), I do understand a little the hurt that is coming through with your comments.

    You have come on here as you are quite entitled to do & expressed your opinion. If some on here don't agree they should (as I've been told) ignore and move on. Not ridicule you (I think I made a comment about you but hopefully not in a derogatory way, just my observation). The Internet is a very dangerous forum, in that you don't know how your comments (banter or otherwise) are going to affect others. Seems to me you have been deeply hurt by some of the comments directed your way.

    But - two wrongs do not make a right.

    I see a positive influx of posters recently. Hang on in there.
  • Whitney Houstons Crack Pipe
    Posts: 1,048
    AussieSheila said:

    Murray

    Whilst I don't condone your comments in Winston's thread about his baby (I too have been through something similar & it's absolutely terrifying, wouldn't wish it upon anyone), I do understand a little the hurt that is coming through with your comments.

    You have come on here as you are quite entitled to do & expressed your opinion. If some on here don't agree they should (as I've been told) ignore and move on. Not ridicule you (I think I made a comment about you but hopefully not in a derogatory way, just my observation). The Internet is a very dangerous forum, in that you don't know how your comments (banter or otherwise) are going to affect others. Seems to me you have been deeply hurt by some of the comments directed your way.

    But - two wrongs do not make a right.

    I see a positive influx of posters recently. Hang on in there.


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    Only if you're mental, the internet if taken with a massive pinch of salt is harmless. Murray is just a bitter nasty little man. although Winston should keep serious family situations like his to himself if he can't be prepared to see comments such as Murray's.
  • Winston Wolfe
    Posts: 4,680
    I have no problems with people coming back at me , especially when I've offended them, I expect it in fact.

    He made his comments and I responded, no problemo.
  • Whitney Houstons Crack Pipe
    Posts: 1,048
    Winston Wolfe said:

    I have no problems with people coming back at me , especially when I've offended them, I expect it in fact.

    He made his comments and I responded, no problemo.


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    How is the sprog anyway
  • AussieSheila
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    Unfortunately, not all of us can can take it with a pinch of salt. Some people are sensitive, ultra-sensitive if you like. That is something all of us have to take into account.

    As I've tried to say all along - we are all entitled to our opinion. May be wrong, may be right. But this forum is for all Everton supporters to have their say.

    Whether I agree or not.
  • Winston Wolfe
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    Just put it on the original thread mate. His blood have come back clear, he's to get an gray on his head but hopefully be home tomorrow.

    Frightening stuff at the time like.
  • AussieSheila
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    Winston, I'm so happy for you as i know how harrowing that can be.

    They are much tougher than we are those babies of ours .......
  • blue32years
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    What are they doing an x-ray for mate ?
  • Winston Wolfe
    Posts: 4,680
    He's had a lump on his head since he was born mate and we were waiting on a call to another hospital about it anyway but they're going to look at it here.

    Its not from the vacuum, that's long gone. But they were expecting this other one to have disappeared too but its still the same.
  • Winston Wolfe
    Posts: 4,680
    AussieSheila said:

    Winston, I'm so happy for you as i know how harrowing that can be.

    They are much tougher than we are those babies of ours .......


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    Cheers Sheila. He's a wee trooper!
  • blue32years
    Posts: 16,343
    Ahhh right mate

    I was hoping they weren't using it as a diagnostic for meningitis.



    He had any baby acne or bad cradle cap pal , could just be an inflamed lymph node.


  • AussieSheila
    Posts: 1,748
    Winston Wolfe said:

    Cheers Sheila. He's a wee trooper!


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    Course he is ..... He's a Blue!!!!
  • Winston Wolfe
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    blue32years said:

    Ahhh right mate

    I was hoping they weren't using it as a diagnostic for meningitis.



    He had any baby acne or bad cradle cap pal , could just be an inflamed lymph node.


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    No mate nothing like that. He's had it since he was born, its a big lump at the top of his head to the back.
  • blue32years
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    Let me know how the X-ray goes mate. Hope everything is fine.
  • AussieSheila
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    Me too. Jeez nothing worse than having a sick infant.

    Puts all our football bullshit well and truly in it's place ......
  • Snowcone
    Posts: 6,877
    Babies are littlebastards for worrying you, especially your first, sure they act up on purpose so you'll buy tnem a new hat. We used to be at Alder Hey by tbe minutes with my daughter, by the ti e my lad was born we were li,e, ohfuck it, boot him and see if he starts breathing again.
  • AussieSheila
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    Not comforting for a first time Dad ...... But i know you probably don't mean that.

    You're just trying to make humour out of a sad situation. That's what we do.

    Fingers crossed, & prayers (if you believe).

    I don't pray Winston. But I might make an exception for your little one .......
  • sambo applecart
    Posts: 24,216
    I take my hat off to all you parents, must be the world's hardest job.

    I've never really wanted any.

    If i did, i couldn't cope anyway, i would be stressing every 2 minutes checking it was breathing, and poking it with a stick to make sure its still moving etc. If it wasnt making any noise in the middle of the night i would be getting up and pouring a glass of cold water on it to see if it reacted, make sure it was ok. 

    Just don't think i'd cope very well with the pressure of it all. Poor thing would have alosrts of issues with OCD etc when it got older.........plus i couldnt cope with it when it started pouring cold water on me in the middle of the night and poking me with a stick when im asleep to see if im still alive...........
  • AussieSheila
    Posts: 1,748
    sambo applecart said:

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    Honey, it never ends. I still worry myself sick about my kids, and they've all (thankfully) grown up safely.

    But I would never ever have it any other way. Brings a meaning to your life like nothing else. When you hear people say they would willingly die to save their kids......you know exactly what they mean.

    And for what it's worth - I think you'd be a good Dad. Simply because you're thinking about it & wondering if you'd be good enough. Kids need love, pure & simple. And encouragement. And to know that they have your support in everything they do. That's pretty much it. You can buy them every gadget under the sun, but it won't compensate for your time. Being there when they need you.

    And of course, you'll always have someone to poke you with a stick to see if you're still with us ........
  • murray1878
    Posts: 2,879
    AussieSheila said:

    Murray

    Whilst I don't condone your comments in Winston's thread about his baby (I too have been through something similar & it's absolutely terrifying, wouldn't wish it upon anyone), I do understand a little the hurt that is coming through with your comments.

    You have come on here as you are quite entitled to do & expressed your opinion. If some on here don't agree they should (as I've been told) ignore and move on. Not ridicule you (I think I made a comment about you but hopefully not in a derogatory way, just my observation). The Internet is a very dangerous forum, in that you don't know how your comments (banter or otherwise) are going to affect others. Seems to me you have been deeply hurt by some of the comments directed your way.

    But - two wrongs do not make a right.

    I see a positive influx of posters recently. Hang on in there.


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    LMAO you get in way way too deep love :-))
  • AussieSheila
    Posts: 1,748
    Oh well I tried.....
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