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Life the long and the short of it.
  • Galway Blue Nose
    Posts: 461
    Dont want to sound like I'm on a downer because I'm not. Just had a light bulb moment this week and feel the need to share it. My Dad died 10 yers ago from cancer, he was 56, and this week a friend of the family took his own life,he was 50. I'm 37 and this week I started to feel mortal, no longer the brave act of never thinking of the end. I realise that the time I have left on this earth maybe short or maybe long but one things for sure I wont have a say in it.
    So life will now be lived on a day to day basis, I will cherish everything I have and will never again take anything for granted. I'm not saying I have found religon or anything like that but I have found a new outlook. Dreams and aspirations will remain the same but they will take a back seat to what I already have.
    So since its Friday that will mean a few cold cans of Heineken in the fridge and watching Ulster in the rugby and throwing the odd comment on here.
    Has anyone else had a lightbulb moment where everything seemed to fall into place ?
  • diggernaut
    Posts: 1,195

    Dont want to sound like I'm on a downer because I'm not. Just had a light bulb moment this week and feel the need to share it. My Dad died 10 yers ago from cancer, he was 56, and this week a friend of the family took his own life,he was 50. I'm 37 and this week I started to feel mortal, no longer the brave act of never thinking of the end. I realise that the time I have left on this earth maybe short or maybe long but one things for sure I wont have a say in it.
    So life will now be lived on a day to day basis, I will cherish everything I have and will never again take anything for granted. I'm not saying I have found religon or anything like that but I have found a new outlook. Dreams and aspirations will remain the same but they will take a back seat to what I already have.
    So since its Friday that will mean a few cold cans of Heineken in the fridge and watching Ulster in the rugby and throwing the odd comment on here.
    Has anyone else had a lightbulb moment where everything seemed to fall into place ?


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    Yer I 'ave.......i' was when watchin' Uls'er in the rugby like...
  • scouse48
    Posts: 584
    Yep,sure have.On my 40th weding anniversary i thought "What the f---k have i done.
  • HOWIE8
    Posts: 7,485

    Dont want to sound like I'm on a downer because I'm not. Just had a light bulb moment this week and feel the need to share it. My Dad died 10 yers ago from cancer, he was 56, and this week a friend of the family took his own life,he was 50. I'm 37 and this week I started to feel mortal, no longer the brave act of never thinking of the end. I realise that the time I have left on this earth maybe short or maybe long but one things for sure I wont have a say in it.
    So life will now be lived on a day to day basis, I will cherish everything I have and will never again take anything for granted. I'm not saying I have found religon or anything like that but I have found a new outlook. Dreams and aspirations will remain the same but they will take a back seat to what I already have.
    So since its Friday that will mean a few cold cans of Heineken in the fridge and watching Ulster in the rugby and throwing the odd comment on here.
    Has anyone else had a lightbulb moment where everything seemed to fall into place ?



    just hope TKD reads this thread, he needs some guidance......
  • Snowcone
    Posts: 6,728
    Walk around any cemetary and you'll find that about half the people died between ages 40-60. As long as you wake up in the morning, you're doing OK. The cars, houses, jobs etc are all just a veneer. However, its very important for every man to make sure he bangs the life out of as many women as possible. (Fatties need not apply).
  • Snowcone
    Posts: 6,728
    HOWIE8 said:

    Dont want to sound like I'm on a downer because I'm not. Just had a light bulb moment this week and feel the need to share it. My Dad died 10 yers ago from cancer, he was 56, and this week a friend of the family took his own life,he was 50. I'm 37 and this week I started to feel mortal, no longer the brave act of never thinking of the end. I realise that the time I have left on this earth maybe short or maybe long but one things for sure I wont have a say in it.
    So life will now be lived on a day to day basis, I will cherish everything I have and will never again take anything for granted. I'm not saying I have found religon or anything like that but I have found a new outlook. Dreams and aspirations will remain the same but they will take a back seat to what I already have.
    So since its Friday that will mean a few cold cans of Heineken in the fridge and watching Ulster in the rugby and throwing the odd comment on here.
    Has anyone else had a lightbulb moment where everything seemed to fall into place ?



    just hope TKD reads this thread, he needs some guidance......

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    And takes his own life? Agreed.





  • AndyForsyth
    Posts: 2,516
    Snowcone said:

    Walk around any cemetary and you'll find that about half the people died between ages 40-60. As long as you wake up in the morning, you're doing OK. The cars, houses, jobs etc are all just a veneer. However, its very important for every man to make sure he bangs the life out of as many women as possible. (Fatties need not apply).


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    Bugger!
  • Galway Blue Nose
    Posts: 461
    Glad to see everyone took it light heartedy. Let me say this though,life rewards what you live,that my friends is my quote.night and god bless.
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,489
    night GBN!  :-h
  • blue-eyed girl
    Posts: 1,303

    Dont want to sound like I'm on a downer because I'm not. Just had a light bulb moment this week and feel the need to share it. My Dad died 10 yers ago from cancer, he was 56, and this week a friend of the family took his own life,he was 50. I'm 37 and this week I started to feel mortal, no longer the brave act of never thinking of the end. I realise that the time I have left on this earth maybe short or maybe long but one things for sure I wont have a say in it.
    So life will now be lived on a day to day basis, I will cherish everything I have and will never again take anything for granted. I'm not saying I have found religon or anything like that but I have found a new outlook. Dreams and aspirations will remain the same but they will take a back seat to what I already have.
    So since its Friday that will mean a few cold cans of Heineken in the fridge and watching Ulster in the rugby and throwing the odd comment on here.
    Has anyone else had a lightbulb moment where everything seemed to fall into place ?


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    I've felt this way too Galway...especially over the last few weeks.
    Life is just too short and time seems to pass faster than it ought to...

    Just try to be happy and everything will fall into place like it should...at least that's what I tell myself.
  • scouse48
    Posts: 584
    Just remember this,life is short and you are dead a long time.So get out there and enjoy yourselves.
  • AndyForsyth
    Posts: 2,516
    I'll be honest, I've been feeling like this for a long time, and that is why I take every opportunity I can to do all the things I can at the times I can.
  • Phantomblue
    Posts: 421
    Life is what you make of it, if there is something wrong, try your best to fix it, you cant be happy 100% of the time, it is then that we seen what we're made of.

    have had more downs than ups in my 34 years, but I'm still here to see out the rest, and its a new tomorrow.
  • sambo applecart
    Posts: 24,179
    good post mate and i agree.....i live life for the next minute not the next month or year, why put off til tomorrow what you can do today imo, life is way to short and if you blink, it will pass you by :)
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,489
    Essentially a eureka moment - a sudden moment of absolute clarity - I have them.

    David Baddiel described it as being like a male ballerina pirouetting across stage during swan lake and half way across the stage the world suddenly slows down and he thinks to himself "W T F am I doing in front of all of these people in a leotard with my tackle on display" but then as quick as it comes its gone and he carries on as though it never happened...

    I just remember that because its so true for me. I have these moments of absolute clarity of thought but they rarely last more than mere seconds, so these days I just enjoy them as and when they chose to grace me with their presence.

    Guess it takes some skill and effort to carry on with all of the sentiment, so maybe try to pick out one bit that you can remember and think you can stay true too. For instance in GBN's case, maybe "Friday Night = Heineken!"
  • sambo applecart
    Posts: 24,179

    Essentially a eureka moment - a sudden moment of absolute clarity - I have them.


    David Baddiel described it as being like a male ballerina pirouetting across stage during swan lake and half way across the stage the world suddenly slows down and he thinks to himself "W T F am I doing in front of all of these people in a leotard with my tackle on display" but then as quick as it comes its gone and he carries on as though it never happened...

    I just remember that because its so true for me. I have these moments of absolute clarity of thought but they rarely last more than mere seconds, so these days I just enjoy them as and when they chose to grace me with their presence.

    Guess it takes some skill and effort to carry on with all of the sentiment, so maybe try to pick out one bit that you can remember and think you can stay true too. For instance in GBN's case, maybe "Friday Night = Heineken!"...........and sunday night for masturbating!

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    Tuesdays for me mate :D
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,489
    Only Tuesdays? I'm disappointed! lol
  • sambo applecart
    Posts: 24,179

    Only Tuesdays? I'm disappointed! lol


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    that i admit to.............
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,489
    lol
  • cjohno
    Posts: 5,114
    live each day like its your last is my moto , i know im a negative so and so on here at times but in real life i just go for it :-) born a blue die a blue thats one thing that is certain in life for me
  • OldGoldenVision
    Posts: 19,489
    Errr, johno... yer can add death and taxes kidda... 

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