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Posts: 3,160March 5
Its a troubled relationship. He drinks too much, knockers her about a bit. She suffers terribly for three years and as the domestic violence increases, she escapes the family home to a woman's refuge.
The child is taken into care.
The father leaves the country to work abroad tax free in an attempt to sort himself out and get back on his feet, he is unreachable by social services and never attempts to make contact himself.
The mother is deemed to be in an unfit state due to the effects the abuse she has suffered has had on her.
The child is put into foster care but any attempt to find a permanent home for the child is suspended to give the mother time enough to see if recovery is possible for her to regain custody of her child.
After a period of therapy and a violence free life the mother asked social services to be re-united with her child. She now lives in a bigger house with a good sized garden and her financial situation is greatly improved. She has since entered into a lesbian relationship.
Social services perform the necessary checks as they would with any couple in the process of re-homing a child taken into care. They meet with the stipulated criteria and the child is re-homed with them.
Point I'm making is purely from the childs perspective. Torturous upbringing leads to period of being taken into care before being re-homed into a loving family environment. A gay couple. One of whom happens to be the childs natural mother.
Are you really going to suggest that this should not be allowed?
Or that males should be discriminated against and that only lesbian couples should be allowed to adopt?
Or should there be a natural parent onus (which surely strikes at the very core of the adoption process in any case) on such homosexual situations?
You may not like it, it may not be ideal. But adoption never is, and its fair to say that minds greater than those who inhabit this place have long since agreed that Idi and myself are in the right.
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Posts: 8,869March 5 I was hoping for a twist tbh. I thought the lesbian woman was going to be the dad after a sex_change. Your story needs more explosions as well.
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Posts: 2,557March 5ToffeeCup said:
Its a troubled relationship. He drinks too much, knockers her about a bit. She suffers terribly for three years and as the domestic violence increases, she escapes the family home to a woman's refuge.
The child is taken into care.
The father leaves the country to work abroad tax free in an attempt to sort himself out and get back on his feet, he is unreachable by social services and never attempts to make contact himself.
The mother is deemed to be in an unfit state due to the effects the abuse she has suffered has had on her.
The child is put into foster care but any attempt to find a permanent home for the child is suspended to give the mother time enough to see if recovery is possible for her to regain custody of her child.
After a period of therapy and a violence free life the mother asked social services to be re-united with her child. She now lives in a bigger house with a good sized garden and her financial situation is greatly improved. She has since entered into a lesbian relationship.
Social services perform the necessary checks as they would with any couple in the process of re-homing a child taken into care. They meet with the stipulated criteria and the child is re-homed with them.
Point I'm making is purely from the childs perspective. Torturous upbringing leads to period of being taken into care before being re-homed into a loving family environment. A gay couple. One of whom happens to be the childs natural mother.
Are you really going to suggest that this should not be allowed?
Or that males should be discriminated against and that only lesbian couples should be allowed to adopt. Or should there be a natural parent onus on such homosexual situations? Which surely strikes at the very core of the adoption process in any case.
You may not like it, it may not be ideal. But adoption never is, and its fair to say that minds greater than those who inhabit this place have long since agreed that Idi and myself are in the right.-----------------
Yes, your scenario works but believe me Elton John did not go looking/was not willing to adopt a child from an abusive relationship, he wanted a feckin designer baby ! -
Posts: 3,160March 5Warrington Dan said:
I was hoping for a twist tbh. I thought the lesbian woman was going to be the dad after a sex_change. Your story needs more explosions as well.
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hahaha.... you see, I knew people would be dissappointed with the ending.
Thats the trouble with lesbians, they are just so_fecking mundane. As soon as they get involved all the intrigue and excitment goes out of the window. The dull furry cup drinking bastids!
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Posts: 8,869March 5ToffeeCup said:
hahaha.... you see, I knew people would be dissappointed with the ending.
Thats the trouble with lesbians, they are just so_fecking mundane. As soon as they get involved all the intrigue and excitment goes out of the window. The dull furry cup drinking bastids!-----------------
Should of used pictures of the lesbians ...just to make the story easier to follow like. -
Posts: 3,160March 5
at home listening to music, in a responsible manner:
http://cdn.head-fi.org/0/05/05146424_headphone-fetish-girl-on-girl.jpeg
You are right....thats much better
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Posts: 7,959March 5ToffeeCup said:
Its a troubled relationship. He drinks too much, knockers her about a bit. She suffers terribly for three years and as the domestic violence increases, she escapes the family home to a woman's refuge.
The child is taken into care.
The father leaves the country to work abroad tax free in an attempt to sort himself out and get back on his feet, he is unreachable by social services and never attempts to make contact himself.
The mother is deemed to be in an unfit state due to the effects the abuse she has suffered has had on her.
The child is put into foster care but any attempt to find a permanent home for the child is suspended to give the mother time enough to see if recovery is possible for her to regain custody of her child.
After a period of therapy and a violence free life the mother asked social services to be re-united with her child. She now lives in a bigger house with a good sized garden and her financial situation is greatly improved. She has since entered into a lesbian relationship.
Social services perform the necessary checks as they would with any couple in the process of re-homing a child taken into care. They meet with the stipulated criteria and the child is re-homed with them.
Point I'm making is purely from the childs perspective. Torturous upbringing leads to period of being taken into care before being re-homed into a loving family environment. A gay couple. One of whom happens to be the childs natural mother.
Are you really going to suggest that this should not be allowed?
Or that males should be discriminated against and that only lesbian couples should be allowed to adopt. Or should there be a natural parent onus on such homosexual situations? Which surely strikes at the very core of the adoption process in any case.
You may not like it, it may not be ideal. But adoption never is, and its fair to say that minds greater than those who inhabit this place have long since agreed that Idi and myself are in the right.-----------------
I know a couple (very good friends) who have experienced something very similar like... -
Posts: 2,557March 5IdiAminDaDa said:
I know a couple (very good friends) who have experienced something very similar like...
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Wasn't Elton John and his bum chum tho was it ! -
Posts: 3,160March 5
Elton John is a massive Margaret Thatcher fan Escla.... I'm surprised at you, birds of a feather and all that.
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Posts: 3,160March 5ToffeeCup said:
Are you really going to suggest that this should not be allowed?
Or that males should be discriminated against and that only lesbian couples should be allowed to adopt?
Or should there be a natural parent onus (which surely strikes at the very core of the adoption process in any case) on such homosexual situations?-----------------
Remarkably few people answering the questions above.... thus far only Escla who offers the statement, in favour of homosexual adoption, of:
"Yes, your scenario works" -
Posts: 24,745March 5 Jesus christ, not only is that kid going to be emotionally damaged after receiving AND witnessing abuse.....at the end of the story its going to turn out gay.What's wrong with you people?
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Posts: 7,959March 5sambo applecart said:
Jesus christ, not only is that kid going to be emotionally damaged after receiving AND witnessing abuse.....at the end of the story its going to turn out gay.
What's wrong with you people?-----------------
Factually incorrect, on the latter assertion, like... -
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Posts: 24,745March 5IdiAminDaDa said:
Factually incorrect, on the latter assertion, like...
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still makes me laugh when i read it though :) -
Posts: 7,959March 5sambo applecart said:
still makes me laugh when i read it though :)
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